Thursday, December 31, 2009

给爸爸的一封信

生日快乐老爸!

今天有没有开Party庆祝生日啊??我好像看到很多天使在您身边和您一起庆祝喔。。。开心吧!

妈妈, 姐姐, 姐夫,Ben, 恩豪, 依宁,还有我。。我们都很好, 您不必挂心。 姐姐和姐夫刚带妈妈去槟城旅行, 可是您知道老妈的啦, 每晚都睡不着, 一下子说床很脏,一下子又说盖被脚会痒!都不知好气还是好笑!!!我和Ben也刚从台湾回来, 这次还遇到地震,幸亏没事, 真是上帝和老爸您的保佑!!!

至于您的两个宝贝孙嘞还是一样顽皮。 恩豪明年读中二了, 长大了, 不过还是喜欢玩玩具,打电脑, 看卡通, 像小孩子!妈妈每天都一直念他到他都不tahan,我叫妈妈不要一直骂他,好好讲嘛。老爸您托梦给老妈啦, 您跟她讲。 恩豪比起那些samseng仔算是很乖了。 至于依宁(您还没见过的孙女), 她快要两岁了,刚在学讲话, 很漂亮(像我),很叽喳(像我),很聪明(也像我),脾气坏(更像我)!!!希望过华人新年时能带她去给您献花。

老爸您在天堂要保佑妈妈身体健康,活到100岁! 到时每个孙轮流拿钱给她花,她一定笑到。。。:D


永远爱您的女儿上

Monday, December 7, 2009

Barney and I

I love you
You love me
We are happy family
With a great big hug and a kiss from me to you
Won't you say you love me too :)





Playground

We stop at the playground on the way back from market. She is really enjoyed!

Sad thing was on the way back home, she fell and hurt the knee. Jazzel was crying loud when mommy tried to put a plaster for her. She was totally freak out with plaster, so mommy removed it. Then she cried again when saw the blood on her kneecap. She was limping as if her leg broken...hhahaaahaaaa









Sleep or tv?


Karaoke @ Chinatown

Been "itchy" for very long and finally went for karaoke with the gals. Ah Hwee always managed to find the cheapest deal in town. $10 for 3 hours, include free flow of drinks and 1 bowl of sharkfin!!! 世上还有便宜捡, 真不错!

Walk along Chinatown after karaoke, amazed by the changes so far. Always thought this is the place for old people :p

p/s: Received a good news from Lay Moi, she is 3 months pregnant!!! Congrats!





Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Speak Korean??

Daddy calling home to check on us..Jazzel was the first to dash to phone..dun understand what she is talking about but sound like Korean lei...only understand she said "come back", guess she is asking daddy come back home quickly to play with her :D

Monday, November 9, 2009

Jazzel 1st time to swimming pool

Jazzel first time dip to the pool on 8 November 2009.
Venue: Woodlands public swimming pool
Accompany by: Daddy, Mommy and gor gor

She was quite timid initially, so just let her sit on the step a pool side. Tried to encourage her to go down and walk in the pool, but she keep saying 不要不要..so daddy said don't force her else she will have phobia in future. When she get bolder, she accidentally drink some water...choke choke!!!
She stayed in the pool for about 45 mins and mommy realised she started shivering...too cold. Abit heartpain to see her shivering, so 'fish" her out from the pool.

Quite a good starting point, Jazzel has to keep it on...sure one day you can swim.

p/s: Mommy also love to swim, but can't swim :(

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Feeling down

(Edited on 9 Nov)
Feeling very down this morning after reading Charmaine's blog. Confirmed HAMA positive. Don't know who I can talk to, feel so depressed the whole journey in the train. Even think I should stop reading Charmaine's blog as it really affects my emotion. My day will go very happy whenever I read she is doing well with her treatment. My heart sank when I know she is suffering.

My mind just keep on rolling with all these nonsense. Start thinking what if this happened to my own kid?? Why should I bring my kid to this world and let them suffer?? I know I was not thinking right...

Dear Lord, I know life is full of obstacles and YOU are testing on us. While YOU are testing on us, please also give us strengths to fight. She is just a little girl who still has long journey to explore in her life. I am sure YOUR love will make things smoother eventually. Love you, Lord.

And now when I am writing, I know I can't stop reading Charmaine's blog. I won't have a peaceful mind each day without knowing how is she. She is just a stranger to me, but my heart goes to her. I guess this is so called 母性的天质吧!

p/s: I also need strength in daily life, still not doing well as a wife and mother. Feel so lousy :(

dd and me feel so relief when knowing Charmaine's scan is all cleared! Thanks be to God! Amen.

Monday, November 2, 2009

Daddy over mommy!

Usually daddy will leave home early in morning for work, but this week daddy is on course. So this was what happened this morning....

6:55am: Mommy woke Jazzel up. Princess still 赖床 (as usual)

7:00am: Jazzel saw daddy still at home. Without calling mommy first, she said "Daddy!!!"(can tell she was surprised to see daddy at home)

7:03am: Mommy picked Jazzel up from babycot
Mommy: Good morning Jazzel, can you give mommy a kiss?
Instead of usual morning kiss to mommy, she leaned forward to kiss daddy! (okie, fine!)

7:05am: Mommy changed diaper for Jazzel, but daddy took over (cut queue!)

7:10am: Mommy going to comb Jazzel's hair, but she ran away and want daddy to comb for her (Fine!)

While waiting for nanny to pick her up, she asked daddy and mommy to play with her. This was the ONLY time in this morning that she prefers both of us at the same time.

Conclusion: Daddy is over mommy today! (for the first time)

p/s: of coz when mommy scolding Jazzel, daddy is definitely over mommy at that moment. Am always the 黑脸 :(

Monday, October 26, 2009

Jazzel's vocab

Many people around has been asking me "When you going to send Jazzel to playgroup?". To me, I just want her to enjoy her childhood instead of stressed her so much. Looking at current education system in Singapore, I am more firm with my decision. Although playground is just to spend 2-3 hours, mainly playing and mix with other kids. But I am not keen still.

As the nanny has 2 kids at home, so I am not worried that Jazzel cannot mix around with others. Her character is quite friendly with other neighbours' kids as well. Come to the learning part, the nanny has been teaching her many things. This is something I really feel so greatful. Jazzel is also picking up new things very fast.

Her vocab:

1. Family Members:
Mama (mainly refer to the nanny), daddy, mommy, ah ma, gor gor, jie jie, 大姨, 姨丈,
爷爷(cantonese), 嬷嬷(cantonese), 姑姑, auntie, uncle.

2. Greetings:
- 安 (when i said Good Morning or Good Night to her, this is what she replied)
- Hi
- Bye
- Love you and 爱你
- Hello (when answer to phone)
- Ok

3. Body Parts:
Eyes, Ears, Nose, mouth, hair, hands, legs (English version learn from H5, Chinese version from the song 泥娃娃 & taught by nanny)

4. Others:
Milk, biscuit, sweet, Drink (she refers to water), bird, dog, ball, shoes, house, car, hat, flower, tree, etc.

5. Alphabets:
A, B, C, D, ...P, S, T,.. she will sing along when I play the song ABC

6. Numbers:
1 - 10 (either left out some numbers or not in sequence)

My prayers to the God is to make Jazzel a healthy and cheerful person. A healthy and cheerful person then can persue all the things she wants in her life. Thanks be to God.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

HappyBee & HappyPrawn's Birthday Party!!!!

Awesome! I had a great idea this year for my birthday. Told dd am going to throw a birthday party for myself and sis. Brilliant! DD is 100% agreed and started with our shopping for the party. We got very "stylo" hats which really made me excited. Told dd must have lots and lots of balloon. On the day, dd really "blow" up 50 balloon and deco around the house. Feel so touched and excited like a small kid who is having birthday party.

We have everything being set up, what about food?

Another great idea! Told sis we must have Crab Feast for the party. Thanks to dearest brother-in-laws, we had famous chilli crabs, blackpepper crabs, satays and also the 爱心sesame oil fried bee hoon from mom. What about desserts? Dearest BIL has brought us the durian which is much better than 猫山王。Although everyone is 100% full, but still find some space to stuck this in. So when everyone is 150% full, we have only 5% allowance for birthday cake :S

This is the best birthday party I ever had since the one I had when I was 9. A small little party with 心爱的家人 which make everyone happy. But got scolded from mom coz I sent her invitation card by addressing her as "Madam Yap". I told her coz she is my VIP mah...hahhaaaa

Party is not over without birthday present.
Thanks sis for the Esprit bag and designer watch.
Thanks dd for Longchamp bags.

























HappyBee & HappyPrawn's Birthday Invitation

My plot -- My Guest -- My Party---wooohoooooo!!!!

Monday, October 12, 2009

爷爷Birthday

Birthday celebration can be just simple, not necessary to have dinner at high class restaurant. It's the thoughts from all children or even grandchildren to spend time together as one big family. I feels this is what father-in-law was thinking on his birthday.